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Relationships are the most important aspects of our lives. From the moment we arrive on Earth to the moment we depart, we experience relationships of all kinds with other individuals. Sometimes these relationships are supportive, and sometimes they present challenges. Some people seem to have a knack for maintaining strong and healthy relationships. The rest of us, however, wish we had some help.

In this informative, weekend workshop, you will receive the tools you need to move from fear into love and to master your spiritual evolution.

Learn the Universal Law of Relationships and discover the secret to improving every relationship in your life!

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Here's What You'll Learn…

Human Relationships Part 1: Being Human

Before we can explore human relationships, we first have to explore what it means to be human—because most of us have forgotten our true natures. The truth is that we are eternal, multi-dimensional beings; we are whole, complete and perfect, and we are eternally connected to All That Is. We are also currently having a human experience on the planet Earth. If you’ve ever had to change planes in Atlanta, it’s kind of like that…

  • Discover the truth about what it means to be human.

  • Meet the ego and learn how to master it

  • Revealed! The true nature of reality, and why it’s not nearly as real as you think it is.

  • Master three powerful steps that will alter any negative belief, eliminate any destructive behavior pattern and completely transform your reality.

  • Encounter the secret weapon of transformation—a tool so misunderstood that it can only be called the “F-word.”

Human Relationships Part 2: Relationships

What are relationships? Relationships are first and foremost ways in which we can learn our spiritual lessons in the most effective and efficient manner. This applies to all relationships—not just to romantic or sexual relationships. In every relationship we need the same two things: Safety and Validation. How we go about meeting these needs depends on which of the four languages we speak.

  • Discover the awesome power of the Universal Law of Relationships

  • Would you rather get what you WANT in your relationships, or get what you NEED? There’s a big difference between the two. Find out what it is—and discover why the secret to true happiness and amazing relationships is NOT getting what you WANT…

Safety Needs

We rarely consider our safety needs in general, let alone in terms of our relationships. We take our safety for granted when we think about it at all. But, we’re about to see that our safety needs play a very important role in our lives and in our relationships.

  • The 4 things we believe we need in order to feel safe—and why we’re completely wrong about one of them.

  • Learn how we create attachments and addictions—and how to release them.

  • Discover which of the 4 safety checklist languages you speak—and which language your partners speak!

  • Use this 3-Minute Miracle to instantly banish the harmful effects of stress, maintain the balance in your safety account and take absolute control of your life! (This may be the single most powerful technique you will ever experience!)

Validation Needs

Validation needs have to do with defining and supporting our sense of individual identity. Validation needs encompass a wide range of emotions and experiences, all of which are essentially different degrees and expressions of love. “Love,” however, is a four-letter word that has very powerful and specific connotations for most of us. We can easily accept that in our romantic relationships we need to have our “love needs” met. But when we say that we need to have our “love needs” met in our professional relationships, it seems less appropriate—not to mention it could et us into a heap of trouble.

  • Explore the 6 categories of validation needs.

  • 3 foolproof ways to meet anyone’s validation needs (including your own).

  • One of the attendees at a weekend Relationship Workshop shared how early in his marriage, he used to surprise his wife with flowers several times a week—only he was the one who was surprised, because instead of feeling loved and appreciated, she would feel upset and frustrated because he was wasting money on flowers. This was a classic case of him speaking in one Validation Language, and her listening in another. This one secret completely transformed their relationship. Which of the 4 Validation languages do you speak?

Can We Meet Our Needs?

Just because we understand what our core needs are doesn’t mean that we’re going to have an easy time meeting them. Can we reasonably expect to meet the requirements on our checklists?

  • Revealed: the most common patterns that prevent us from meeting our needs and creating fulfilling relationships — and how to change them.

  • The Inner Parent Trap — what to do when your Inner Parent creates Checklists from Hell.

  • Expecting Rejection, Fearing Abandonment and Assuming Unreliability — how to overcome the most common relationship fears.

  • Bad Boundaries and Hopeless Romantics — how to merge with a partner without losing yourself in the process.

  • Power, Control, Manipulation and Abuse — letting go of the fear of change.

Relationship Blueprints

Why do we seem to create the same relationships over and over again? Because we’re building our relationships from the same blueprints. Never underestimate the power of a bad blueprint! (Don't worry—you’ll also discover how to redesign your relationship blueprints).

  • The Soul Blueprint: our relationship to ourselves.

  • The Authority Blueprint: our relationship to authority figures, and our relationship to our subordinates.

  • The Marriage Blueprint: the ONLY blueprint we have for ANY romantic or sexual relationship of ANY kind.

  • Which of the four types of Marriage Blueprint do you have?

The Relationship Definition Talk (RDT), or Be Sure You’re In The Relationship You Think You’re In

Are you and your partner in the same relationship with each other? Do you have the same expectations and understandings of the relationship? The only way to find out is to have a Relationship Definition Talk.

  • Explore the different labels for romantic relationships and discover what each one means to you.
  • Learn how to build a romantic relationship with labels — and without them.
  • When you should have a Relationship Definition Talk — and when you must have one.

How to Improve Every Relationship in Your Life

  • 6 simple, practical steps that are absolutely guaranteed to improve every relationship in your life!

  • Master this one step and people will fall over themselves to meet your needs! (But if you skip this step you don’t have a prayer of getting what you want!)
  • Learn how to create and implement new scripts in your relationships to ensure that your needs are met!

  • Troubleshooting: What to do if your relationships do not improve.

The Relationship Workbook: Your Tool For Transformation

The Relationship Workshop CDs include a copy of The Relationship Workbook: How to Understand and Improve Every Relationship in Your Life (a $24.95 value!). During the weekend you will use the exercises in The Relationship Workbook to discover your hidden relationship needs and expectations. The tools in the workbook will allow you to master the skills you learn during the workshop and transform every relationship in your life—absolutely guaranteed!


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